part of the movie was really good and that I remember most was when the guy came up and read what he had written. he tell how she had changed their lives and helped to become better.while I saw those I thought of many things the way others do. there are many who have the bad and live a bad life. 2)difference between the movie and the reading was that when you read .fantasize how things were going, and given how they had while it was difficult to know whether it was he. but in the movie had to know if it was the guy or girl and it was interesting to see the movie if you had read the book because they saw parts which had been read.